Here are some tips that can help you parenting your child on an autism spectrum.
Learn to Accept
This is the hard truth. Hearing the diagnosis is one hard impact in parenting. Many parents still have difficulty accepting the diagnosis. However, when in denial there are plenty of skills that are not addressed, plenty of memories that can be positively shaped, plenty of lost times to bond and learn with your child. Acceptance opens more doors to understanding autism spectrum disorder.
Be consistent
A child with autism needs routine. They learn best when they are familiar with the routine. They work best when they know what to do as they already practiced and got familiar with the routine. Being consistent will help them become more independent.
Avoid too many changes
Parents need to preempt their child about the change that’s gonna happen. For example, if there will be a party coming on a weekend or a friend is visiting your house, preempt your child.
Be positive
Showing positivity emits love and motivation. Giving your child praises will give him the security that he needs.
Continue learning
Learning is a journey. It never stops. Even if you get a graduate degree, learning is still ongoing. Read books about autism spectrum disorder. Learn from your child's teachers, therapists, doctors and apply those learnings at home.
Have a journal
Put your thoughts in your notebook where you can go back to it for a referral. Write down your child’s achievements and difficulties. Even if it is just a word, write it down. You may need it in the future.
Surround yourself with positive people
Not everybody around you understands what you’re going through. Some may not accept, some may be judgemental, some may fully support you. Have someone who can understand your feelings and be able to confide your thoughts and difficulties. Keeping your feelings and thinking to yourself for a long period may not be healthy for your well-being. Join groups that help and support each other.
Have enough rest and sleep
Having a child with autism can be exhausting because of possible hyperactivity, regulation, or sleep deprivation. When your child sleeps, try to also sleep with him if you need extra rest. Proper sleep and enough rest are important to regenerate the body’s energy and strength.
Structure your place
Have a clean and structured environment. Having a child with autism may mess up your things. However, when you structure your homes such as having a basket where you can throw the toys quickly can save a lot of your time and energy.
I hope this helps you get some ideas on how you can help your child cope in his daily life as a parent. Grab your short copy here at the bottom to remind you of these tips for parenting.
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'Til next time!
Teacher Quennie